tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-52719862495897925972012-01-25T20:21:00.174-08:00Love, Relationship, Marriage, Dating, Sex etc etcPebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.comBlogger801100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-48630411364899963342009-06-07T18:25:00.000-07:002009-06-07T18:33:10.315-07:00

This is a really beautiful lesson to life.Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio :"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written.My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:"1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.2. When in doubt, just take the next small

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10 Surprising Health Benefits of SexThe health benefits of sex extend well beyond the bedroom. Turns out sex is good for you in ways you may never have imagined.By Kathleen DohenyWebMD FeatureReviewed by Louise Chang, MDAmong the benefits of healthy loving in a relationship:1. Sex Relieves StressA big health benefit of sex is lower blood pressure and overall stress reduction, according to

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MEN ARE JUST HAPPIER PEOPLENICKNAMESIf Laura, Kate and Sarah go out for lunch, they will call each other Laura, Kate and Sarah.If Mike, Dave and John go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla and Four-eyes.EATING OUTWhen the bill arrives, Mike, Dave and John will each throw in $20, even though it's only for $32.50. None of them will have anything smaller and none

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I was a very happy man. My wonderful girlfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and so we decided to get married.There was only one little thing bothering me...It was her beautiful younger sister. My prospective sister-in-law was twenty-two, wore very tight miniskirts, and generally was bra-less. It had to be deliberate. One day her "little" sister called and asked me to come over to check

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This is an interesting question. In my circle of friends, I have quite a divided group. On one camp are the independent, long term thinking ladies who will do everything for herself regardless whether she has a boyfriend or not. Therefore when the time is right, when she has the money to buy a property for herself, she will do so. However, on the other camp are the ones who also think of

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Hey everyone! Miss me?? Ooops..sorry for the long silence. Too busy, too lazy, too many excuses for not posting any new entries for sometime now. I am back so keep coming back for more insights to this thing called L.O.V.E.!Here's a great tip for the day, infact every day!! Dental advisors at the British Dental Association say that KISSING is "nature's own cleaning process". It is a great way to

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Happy Happy New Year.Any romantic new year resolutions out there? I guess it should about the same, for those who are single, the resolution is to find the right one soon.For those who have been dating for some time, would be likely to get married.For those who are married errr...it is probably to get out of the marriage..... hahaha...kidding, kidding.Whatever your resolutions are, I hope that

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FINE This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are right and you need to shut up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks - this will cause you to have one of those arguments. FIVE MINUTES This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it's an even trade. NOTHING This means "

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Caution : For 18 and above only.Haha..I found this, I don't know how accurate and best of all, it is written by a Man!! Look out for my comments at the end.By David HarrisonI am about to reveal the best sex position ever. The technique will allow the female to enjoy as many orgasms as she can stand (hundreds in an evening are possible) and they will be the biggest, most earth-shattering orgasms

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"I do" is 2 simple words but it has significant meaning when directed at the question of - Will you marry me? When you say "I do", it comes with a commitment to spend the rest of your life with the other person. It is not about being caught in the moment. For the person who asks and for the person who answers, it is a lifetime commitment. So, probably "we do" is more appropriate. I decided to

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Hi everyone, I am extremely excited. Since I have started this blog, I somehow feel that my writings are biased to women. Naturally... cos moi is a lady! :) So, I am happy to annouce that I found a man to contribute to my column from time to time. Let me just call him The Beast. Hope you will feedback on his first column.Man with desire to have ménage à troisby The Beast I am not sure why one of

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It is only Tuesday......sigh....so I feel I need to spread a little love around. So cheer up by saying the 3 words of love. Read on, I have a small challenge at the end of this post.Those three little words, "I Love You", hold a lot of meaning, but there's more ways to say them than you think.Here are 101 different ways for you to verbally express your love to your sweetheart.I adore you.I am

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I love stories about LOVE. Yeah...I am a hopeless romantic. So, I am sharing this bit of celebrity love news I just read from People.com.I know that love in Hollywood is so fragile, it almost never lasts and we hear more about "phonecall" break-ups to messy divorces more than we hear about happily every after. I guess Hollywood is not a fairytale after all.So whenever I read a piece of celebrity

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When you meet a guy and you have just dated a few times, sometimes it is hard to gauge if he interested or not. Some guys want to be cool and since they are also unsure about your feelings they may not be so forthright in their pursuit.However, there are a few tell tale signs that he is already smitten with you. Watch out for it.1. He picks you up from the airport2. He is comfortable listening to

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The question to ask is "Who is sleeping with you in your bedroom? Is it your spouse or is there someone else or something else that is taking the passion out of the bed?The bedroom should be a place for your spouse and you. A bed of passion.These are top 5 things that is sure a killer to the mood if you allow these sleeping partners to slip into bed with you.1. The BabyTaking care of a baby is

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I was right! I was right!!!!Sorry I had to gloat here a bit cos I was right!!! I knew she picked the wrong guy!This is regarding the Bachelorette DeAnna Pappas. She just called off her engagement with the guy Jesse Csincsack, who proposed to her in the finale show and she accepted on national TV.They even had a website together. And seemed so in love....ha! But I knew she choose the wrong guy and

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-15376433780093032442008-11-06T21:05:00.000-08:002008-11-06T21:06:29.265-08:00

As I was surfing the net, I came across this blog posting on Dreams & Reality.It is about sexual predators, those "sick in the head" people who prey after women whether young or old. They may not go to the extend of rape but they thrive on sexual harassment or sexual assault, sometimes a slight grey area that is not so easily caught.Some of their acts - Flasher (flashing of their genitals), they

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This funny incident came up during my little reunion with a bunch of old friends. We have known each other for 10 years after joining a self development course therefore all of us are of different background and age group. It is a wonderfully diversified group yet we are close and able to share many stories whenever we meet up once or twice a year.Inadvertently, the topic will always stir to sex.

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I was reading Cosmopolitan and I thought the article on what guys don’t want women to do in bed is pretty interesting. These are few that I picked out and check out if you commit any of it. 1) Noise-making is great but don’t freak him out. Guys really dig into girls who respond in bed. It encourages him and a sign that he is doing the right things. But too much moaning will freak him out. He

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We all probably had our share of partying days. For many, it is still a Friday night ritual and sometimes a few days a week. I believe partying is a phase that everyone should go through. As for me…been there, done that, I feel a little old for partying nowadays but I would still obliged once in a while. With the right company, it can be great fun.However, I would like to warn all you party

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What is love? This question suddenly came to my mind. I decided to search the net for some definitions. Many wrote that, it is one of the most difficult questions for mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. Oxford definition :- 1. an intense feeling of deep affection. 2. a deep romantic or sexual

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My previous posting (click link here) uncovered some reasons on why mother in law behaves in a certain way. However even with understanding and emphathy, it can never take away the frustrations and heart aches when dealing with an unreasonable mother in law.These are my 5 tips on how to handle the situation, it will probably not solve the problem but hopefully it will help.1) Patience is a virtue

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Any of you ladies out there is encountering this issue? Is this one of your laments? Do you have a hate hate relationship with your mother in-law? Does she make your life misearable? Is your mother in law butting in your life?So why are mother in laws out to make their daughter in law’s life miserable? From my observations of my own family and from friends, these are reasons I can think of. It is

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I have always heard that men do not talk about intimate stuff. They are just macho macho with the guys and talk about football, money, business. They don't like to talk about their girlfriend, wife, whatmore intimate secrets of the bedroom. So, do men tell all after sex? Do they talk about how good or how bad they are in bed? Do they share bedroom details with their macho guy friends? Yes they do

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I am no expert in this topic but somehow I am intrigued to write about this as it just happened to a friend of mine.I personally have many gay friends…some of them are even really good friends of mine. Most if not all, are friends that I got to know when I started working. Most of them are in the advertising line working as creative personnel, PR, graphic design etc. And I realized that I don’t

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They have been friends since school days.All 8 of them have been thru thick and thin. They hang out, go on holidays, and always there for each other. One of them is gay. After 10 years, he has never confessed. Now he has found someone special. He wants his best friends to know but he does not know how they will accept his lifestyle. To make things worse, his friends does not like his "friend" and

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I can only say for women and I think the above is absolutely true. Whenever we look into the mirror, we just see how fat we are. And that is why we always ask the stupid question of "DO I LOOK FAT?"God forbid if anyone especially the boyfriend or husband to even hesitate to answer no. The answer is always No, You look great! No hesitation, no pondering. Better if you can fake a puzzled look of

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A friend sent me the cartoon below today. I thot it was really funny. Yeah men and women are different and to some extent, it is absolutely true. But I do know that it does not apply to all. Men nowadays are also very conscious of their looks and they do take a long time getting ready too. Am I right?

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Celebrities are often not the best role models when it comes to marriage. We often hear more of break-ups than happily ever after. However Hollywood would not be Hollywood without the juicy stories of infidelities, break-ups, divorces.However, there are also many couples that have lasted the test of time. These are some couples that I think are best roles models on marriages. I do hope that they

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Sometimes the simplest story are the best love stories, no frills, no drama, just a simple hello, and the rest as they say is history.I recently read Barack and Michelle Obama's love story. If you have been following the US presidential election, you will know that this man is potentially going to be one of the most powerful man in the future. Infact the future of America and how it affects the

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One of my first entries in this blog is about 30-something singles. I was a 30 something single woman and I understand the emotional ups and downs that one faces when faced with the relationship question.You wonder when the ONE is going to appear. You feel the eligible men/women seem to be lesser and lesser. It also feels that everyone else around is either married or getting married. When is it

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Yeah...The truth is that I suck in understanding the technical aspects on how to beautiful my blog. Have been meaning to change the layout and the look but it took forever as I was just counting on my better half to improvise it for me.He did it and the new layout looks good but there are just some minor tweaks here and there that we still need to do.I look forward to any feedback that you may

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PMS – PreMenstrual Syndrome – something feared by men and usually denied by women. :)The wiki definition – Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) (sometimes refered to as PMT or Premenstrual Tension) is a collection of physical, psychological, and emotional symptoms related to a woman's menstrual cycle.So is there really such thing as PMS? Do women really have bizarre behaviors just before their monthly

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I am sure all of us at one point or another have good friends from the opposite sex. Whether it is friends from high school, colleagues, or just friends you met along the way, there are some who have become more than acquaintances.If you were both single, have you wondered how come both of you never got together?I guess for some, you never ever considered your friend as a potential bf/gf. Friends

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One of the best things that both I and my husband have is the ability to be silly with each other. This is really special bond between the both of us.I strongly encourage all couples to have their silly moments. It really brings 2 people together; you can be yourself and laugh at each other’s silliness.It is difficult to describe on what silliness are because it would be different for every

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SEX @ Work – How to be Safe?I read this article the other day and I thought it is appropriate since I have been writing about office affairs.These are some of the tips on how to be safe when you want to be “dangerous” at work!1) Choose your partners wisely. If you are wise, don’t go for the married ones, no matter how tempting. Try not to go for your boss or your superiors. And definitely don’t

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There is a saying – THE OFFICE is the new Singles Bar! It is no surprise that office romance / affairs are much talked about. It is probably the most interesting and refreshing gossips among office colleagues! Who does not relish a good gossip especially when it is about someone you know? Better still if it is about your boss!! Unless you are the target of the gossip!With Careers and Love at

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Being out of town, one of the things I miss most is meeting up with my BFFs. Catching up on their lives, men, gossips, shopping together etc are just pleasures that women enjoy. Now that I am back in town, I cherish the dinners, teas that I have with them, just talking and acting like silly teenagers.Obviously “MEN” remains the main topic. My friends are mostly still single and finding out about

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I agree that many people today do not find any need or compelling reasons to abstain from sex before marriage. You will be considered so old fashioned and backward to even as to suggest it. However, they are many who make that decision of abstinence. Religion plays a big part. In the bible, it is stated very clearly why sex before marriage is not permissible.I am a Christian and I believe in and

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It’s just sex!Pleasure now, why wait?It's no big deal!I love him, sex is something we do.These are probably the views of the young people today. We are in a sex-saturated culture, waiting till marriage would seems outdated and prudish.Sex is no longer viewed as a special bond given only to the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Pleasure now is the name of the game and not many

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-81269950827410605392008-09-02T01:49:00.000-07:002008-10-26T18:12:34.368-07:00

Is the image of a person more important or the personality of a person?When asked what type of girls or guys you like, what would your answer be?Are you more focused on the outer image or the inner personality?Would you be considered shallow if your answer is more about the outer image - Tall, slim, long hair etc etc?Or would you take the time to think thru what kind of personality you like to

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Still inspired after watching the movie Sex and The City, I decided to check around for the Beethoven's "love letter" mentioned in the movie. The one that Carrie read to Mr Big (it's so weird that Carrie actually called him "John" in the movie). In the end....Mr Big whispered to Carrie the 3 line from Beethoven's love letter. These letters were found in Beethoven's desk after he died. They were

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If you have seen the movie, you would know that the scene above (whereby she reads from a book titled Love Letters of Great Men) is pivotal to the overall movie's plot.Basically, after the movie release, fans all over the world started searching for this book. Ah ha....it DOES NOT EXIST!!The closest text in the real world apparently is "Love Letters From Great Men and Women: From the Eighteenth

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-77223522011644850722008-08-27T05:45:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:16:50.787-07:00

I watched it finally. It was date night for me and husband and for 50cents tickets, it was well worth it.I was pleasantly surprised on how well the movie turned out. I totally enjoyed the series but movie making is a totally different ball-game. And I must say the writers did a great job. For months after the movie release, I avoided all news about the movie and I am glad I did cos I really did

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-56615947864746323162008-08-26T08:10:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:16:10.804-07:00

I have been married for a year.I have lived with my husband for 6 mths.Strange?During our courtship, our relationship have been mainly long distance.He is in US and I am in Malaysia. Thousand of miles apart.After we got married, I still stayed in Malaysia for 6 mths before joining him in US.So now, I have officially been a housewife for 6 mths.It was wonderful, I cook, bake, garden, watch TV and

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-25452774205048462752008-08-23T18:47:00.000-07:002008-10-26T18:13:53.668-07:00

Since I am thinking of babies, I decided to view some cute and funny baby videos on you tube. Here I am pasting a couple of funny ones.Babies always put a smile on your face. It is even more adorable when babies are laughing. They sound so ground-up and you can't help but laugh along with them.Brother and baby love. This is really cute.Since it is the Beijing Olympic Games, to play tribute to the

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-73088776025098110862008-08-21T22:21:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:17:42.323-07:00

Since my little scare this week, I decided to read up a bit on signs of pregnancy. Most of them are common, either you have read about it or you have seen it on TV before....1) Fainting.....2) Nausea3) Feeling faint4) Tender breast5) Frequent urination6) Extreme fatigue7) Spotting8) Constipation9) Missed Period10) This one I added. FEELING FAT! :)Click here and here if you wanna read more.Don't

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This is the question in my mind for the last week. What are the factors to consider?Should age be the determinant? Too young, or more like, clock is ticking.What about money? I heard it takes a lot to bring up a child nowadays.Should both couple have a honeymoon period after wedding before having a child? How long? One year, 6 mths, 2 years??Pressure from parents? Should we succumb to the

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-47585196722627088112008-08-19T20:00:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:19:53.401-07:00

I have been feeling a bit down these few days and usually when I am down, I tend to appreciate people around me more. I try not to let my husband see that I am feeling down as I don't want people around me feeling awkward. Somehow, my husband is always aware and he will try in his little ways to cheer me up. Like today, he said he had sore throat and decided to stay home. I know that he wants to

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-23457026434871844432008-08-18T06:36:00.001-07:002008-09-03T20:21:01.155-07:00

There is always more than meet the eyes.I believe 99% of the time, something will get in the way. I give the benefit of the doubt to the 1% of possibility that men and women can be just great friends.Of course, I don't mean that men and women can't be friends. We all have lots of friends of the opposite sex. My question is aiming at the really goody goody, really close, really best of the buddies

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-52902295334567296082008-08-15T18:59:00.000-07:002008-10-26T18:13:17.393-07:00

I found these videos on youtube. If you liked the movie, it will refresh your memories of friends turning into lovers, proving that man and woman cannot be friends :)The below video is the famous "orgasm" scene by Meg Ryan. Be warned. Click on your own risk. You may want to turn down the volume if you are not alone, but if you like by all means...volume it up.

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I watched When Harry Met Sally this afternoon. I have watched it before but somehow I just felt like watching it again. Love stories - I can watch again and again without feeling bored especially if the ending is good.In the movie Billy Crystal who plays Harry in the movie said " Men and women cannot be friends because sex always get in the way"Sex aside, I guess the more fundamental question is

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-48774417667686572662008-08-13T19:33:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:22:07.420-07:00

I guess Men and Women are different. Therefore, every time I read below, I laugh, acknowledge but will never admit.Smart man + smart woman = romanceSmart man + dumb woman = affairDumb man + smart woman = marriageDumb man + dumb woman = pregnancyA man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn’t need.A woman worries about the future until she gets a

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-12823522137791497572008-08-11T21:02:00.001-07:002008-09-03T20:22:46.023-07:00

It is so unfair! Women have to take care of the husband, have kids, work, cook, bake, wash, clean and also take care of themselves since it is pretty clear that women age faster than men. Or at least they will look older and men somehow still able to maintain their young looks.So is it in the genes, or maybe it is because of all the sarifices of being a woman eg. giving birth!!!Some people say

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-63128255121730816742008-08-11T13:22:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:23:04.856-07:00

This is John Edward's interview with ABC spokeperson.He admitted to having the affair.He denied being father to the baby.He said the affair ended in 2006 so he can't be the father.He denied giving money to Reile Hunter.He appeared like a good man who made a mistake, and since his wife can forgive him, then everybody should.But I don't think he is telling the whole truth. John Edwards looked

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-32054093784146291482008-08-11T11:55:00.001-07:002008-09-03T20:23:23.569-07:00

I am looking forward to this show. Please click here to view link and watch the video.http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20217493,00.htmlFirstly, I am a fan of Meg Ryan and it's been a long time since she has acted in any movies.Furthermore, this movie has 2 other powerhouse actresses - Annette Benning and Eva Mendes and even Jada-Pinkett-Smith.Since I am on the topic of infidelity....this

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Since I am writing about infidelity (read my previous postings), here I am sharing a poem I found written by Vyne Daguasi.INFIDELITYCan one heart possibly beat twice at a time? Can one heart possibly sail in two rivers at a time? Can one soul possibly have two soul mates? Can one “I LOVE YOU” possibly uttered twice by one lips at a time? Sweet beginnings, Became bitter endings.Love that were

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-53441173990267751552008-08-09T19:24:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:24:02.900-07:00

I guess there are many reasons why. And only the woman who makes that decision can justify why.This is what Hilary Clinton said when she was interviewed on Tyra Banks show on why she chose to stay with Bill Clinton after his infamous fall from grace "affair" with Monica Lewinsky."I really had to dig down deep and think hard about what was right for me, what was right for my family."These are some

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Another scandal here in USA involving a prominent former Democratic Presendential Candidate Senator John Edward. He is young-looking and handsome....a very potential candidate and also a sad story as his wife is battling an incurable cancer. So there are probably some sympathy voters but some did criticize him for running in the presenditial race even though his wife is sick.Anyway recently,

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-66160236834779949112008-08-07T21:27:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:25:36.636-07:00

Have you ever asked yourself this question?Some people say, there are things better not know. It wouldn't hurt if you don't know. When you do know, it will probably feel a water balloon burst on your head and there is no way to turn back the clock to stop the water from coming down.What is your answer to the question?Here are my answers -1) If he is cheating on me on an on-going basis eg (he

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-79270057403033210862008-08-07T20:18:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:26:05.088-07:00

It must be every woman's worst nightmare to find out her man has cheated on her.I cannot imagine the anguish!What would she do? Leave him? Stand by him?It is not an easy decision.If you are married, there are many more considerations. Divorce, children etc etc.But if you are single, would it make it easier to leave the man?Some say, once a cheater, always a cheater. Is there any truth to that?

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-48750318159258856742008-08-06T20:54:00.001-07:002008-08-07T10:47:51.683-07:00

Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree.The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing.They just have to wait for the right boy to

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-54648304418680863222008-08-05T19:52:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:27:49.408-07:00

Admit it! Romantic movies are for chicks. They are chick flicks. They are not design for guys. Guys don't enjoy them, don't want to see them, and don't want to be seen watching these shows.But somehow, girls being girls, we love to drag our men to watch these movies. And we will even plan a romantic setting which involves watching a romantic movie. Trust me, the guys hate it. They rather watch

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-17793147923104000962008-08-05T09:05:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:29:10.484-07:00

Ok ok...last posting of blind dates......since not much respond on this topic :) read and give me some respond :)Since I was writing on blind dates, and maybe some of you wanna consider doing it, You never know unless you try right? Anyway, this is not a paid advertisement but since this company is the only one I know I thot I could share about it.Ok, I have never tried it myself but I have

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-86487939111347399872008-08-04T16:05:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:29:39.474-07:00

Writing about my blind date experiences sure brought back memories. Those were the days when I was happily single. Ahhh...... now happily married..(that's for my hubby incase he is reading)I believe one should experience blind dates if desired. It is not that scary but these are my top 5 tips on blind dating.1) ComfortableGet comfortable about your blind date - get more background on him/her,

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-35720515880429112322008-08-03T20:41:00.000-07:002008-08-03T21:21:03.722-07:00

I think I have been on 3 blind dates (at least the 3 that I remember). I was in my mid twenties, adventurous and ready to try anything. Also these guys came highly recommended by my friends and so I thot what the heck? Just go for it.It turned out well. Guy No 1 - good-looking and pleasant. We had a good time, good conversations, good dinner. Too bad I can't remember anything about him now not

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-27617567609619975182008-08-01T13:32:00.000-07:002008-08-04T18:54:34.585-07:00

A good set up to a blind date (link to my previous posting) is just 20% of the battle. The bigger battle is exactly what happens when you actually go on the blind date?I definitely agree that the anticipation of meeting your blind date is pretty daunting. It builds up all the way to the second you lay eyes on your date.3 typical reactions (in silence please) -1. Hurray! I scored!2. Hmmm...ok..

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-51548767285345015032008-08-01T09:27:00.000-07:002008-08-04T18:53:21.191-07:00

Have you been on a blind date?Some are ok with it, some would never do it, some say they were forced into and for some it is just about getting to know another new friend.I think that blind dates are for cool people. If you are not cool about it, please don't do it. And never agree to do it and then turn around and say you were forced into it. It is so uncool. I say this especially for the guys

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-50130740301480816192008-07-31T14:04:00.000-07:002008-08-07T10:48:32.988-07:00

Ok I have never been in this situation and hopefully many people never encounters it.It is just sad to come so close to getting married....and yet you break up, right?Remember this entry...I know most people in Malaysia have not seen The Bachelor London Calling but anyway, long story short - reality show, cute guy trying to find love among many girls, kick one girl out every week, in the end he

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-64567599945011229932008-07-31T07:39:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:31:32.232-07:00

There was a time when love was about sending letters? Remember?...they call them love letters.Then there was the telephone. So you can talk for hours and hours and hours.Then there was the handphone. So you can talk for more hours, anytime, anywhere. Or least anywhere that has line and yr battery is not dead.Then there was sms. Don't feel like talking...just sms! Whatmore, you can even divorce on

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-2756134616906832702008-07-30T21:01:00.001-07:002008-09-03T20:47:06.675-07:00

Is this a fact? I want to know why.Why is it that men are interested or attracted to things visually? And women have to get all mushy and emotional, do I have feelings for him etc etc etc?Is it because women think too much and men don't think that much? Or maybe they don't think at all.Eyes do the scanning and dicky do the doing.Ha ha...is it true?

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-14801526615473632072008-07-30T06:40:00.000-07:002008-08-07T10:49:19.935-07:00

Ladies - would you marry someone younger than you?I guess most would say yes, it's alright. I guess 80%-90%.Next question - how many years difference is ok?I guess most would say 1-2 years. No big deal.Next question - What about 3 yrs?Still ok I guess.Next question - What about 5 yrs?Errr....depends on mature the guy is. Still possibleNext question - What about 8-10 yrs?Huh...so big difference ah

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-67612653827286560952008-07-29T14:52:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:30:18.392-07:00

My 30-something single friends are so shy.Here I tell them - just DO IT!, there they will tell me - let me think about it!What's the big deal? Just text him and ask a general question. Or after gym, just ask him if he wants to grab food. Just make it casual. It is sooooo easy.They tell me - "easy for you to say, you are married and you don't like him"I guess they are right. I am so excited to get

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-64019068246139368422008-07-28T13:43:00.001-07:002008-09-03T20:42:25.654-07:00

I am a women so I can justify our actions.My guy friend was telling me ....how he doesn't understand why his gf would not just say what she wants even if she has already made up her mind.Scenario -Gf - Honey, what shall we eat for lunch? MacD or KFC?Bf - You decide, I am ok.Gf - tell me what u like...MacD or KFC?Bf - Ok then, KFC!Gf - But why not MacD??Bf - $%@###%%?? (in silent)....... No reason

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-7019569911051212008-07-25T10:10:00.001-07:002008-09-03T20:40:03.822-07:00

Anyway.....I am not surprised to hear that The London Bachelor Matt Grant and his fiancee which he found on the show Shayne Lamas (aka Lorenzo Lamas's daugther) have gone to splitsville. Well, he is young and handsome...come on.... only 27, you think he is ready to settle down??And he chose an "actress" or a wannabe actress and she is only 23. Do you believe that she is so in love?, found the

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-58099966266439559322008-07-08T08:08:00.000-07:002008-09-03T21:00:43.584-07:00

Sorry for those who have not seen the latest season of The Bachelorette cos I am about to spill the beans on the ending.Well, I think for all those who watched, I think probably more than 50% (likely more) would think that Deanna Pappas has made the wrong decision and picked the wrong man! Now, I will give her the benefit of the doubt and probably blame it on the production team who probably

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-69766564394064487452008-05-09T11:06:00.000-07:002008-09-03T20:35:07.345-07:00

How come I only hear this from women? Do guys ever say this....?Well I really don't think so......cos really all the good ones are taken somehow when you are in yr 30s. Why? cos for guys the choice of women gets larger as the guys grow older cos the youngers girls are getting older.....but for women...the pool just get smaller and smaller ...well, unless u are in for younger men..nothing wrong

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-85264183603659012242008-05-01T07:45:00.001-07:002008-09-03T20:34:29.293-07:00

So many times I have heard this phrase, read about it...what really does it mean?Just 2 days ago a girlfriend said this to me. She broke up with her fiance probably a couple of months ago, now she is dating this other guy. It is probably pretty serious as they are looking at buying a house together. But then she said she is not sure, incase it does not work out, she is afraid she will bail out at

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-54366898773691544072008-04-24T12:45:00.001-07:002008-09-03T20:33:00.173-07:00

As you get older, I would think that we no longer get that silly feeling of a crush or infatuation. In my mind, you just go for the kill, no such thing as guessing, does he like me, does he not, glance over to see what he is doing, thinking the whole nite, week, how to start a conversation etc.But it is easier in my mind to say that all women over 30 should be brave enough to just talk to a guy,

Pebbleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00504387348265864467noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5271986249589792597.post-24204115245567676952007-12-28T08:13:00.001-08:002008-09-03T20:58:52.113-07:00

Love..... what really is the definition of love? How do people nowadays regard this thing called love? After some time when you don't find love, do you still believe? Why does love comes with hurt? How do you know when you are in love?I am 30-something and have found love.

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