Friday, October 10, 2008

How do you tell your friends if you are gay?

They have been friends since school days.
All 8 of them have been thru thick and thin. They hang out, go on holidays, and always there for each other. One of them is gay. After 10 years, he has never confessed. Now he has found someone special. He wants his best friends to know but he does not know how they will accept his lifestyle. To make things worse, his friends does not like his "friend" and his "friend" is not really accepted in the group. He doesn't want to lose his friends but he is in dilemma on how they will accept his "friend".

2 comments:

foongpc said...

Gosh! This is a tough one! I guess it depends how much he values his friends. If opening up will result in losing his friends, then he'll have to accept the reality of it. However, in this age, a lot of people have accepted gays so maybe he may want to take the chance and be true to himself instead of hiding for the rest of his life.

Anonymous said...

Foongpc - it is a tough one. His friends dislike his "friend" cos he is a troublemaker in the group. How does he deal with telling his friends his sexuality and yet knowing that they don't even like his "friend" aka partner? It is like your best friends do not like yr gf or bf and they can't get along but this is topped with first telling them you are gay...