Should you keep the engagement ring even if you are not engaged anymore?

Ok I have never been in this situation and hopefully many people never encounters it.

It is just sad to come so close to getting married....and yet you break up, right?

Remember this entry...I know most people in Malaysia have not seen The Bachelor London Calling but anyway, long story short - reality show, cute guy trying to find love among many girls, kick one girl out every week, in the end he proposed to one of them, happily engaged at the end of the show and then 2 months later announced they have split up.

Ok ok...the story now is this.....

She was given a USD65,OOO diamond ring by him. (Btw, paid by the show not the guy) But still, imagine this, he thot she was the one, went down on one knee and proposed. She accepted and wore the ring.

Now that they have broken up, she announced that she is keeping the ring cos she wants to put it in a glass box (like a exhibit) to remind her of the relationship???? Infact, she said he agreed.

Then he came out to say that he did not agree cos she never asked him and he suggested that she should donate the ring to charity.

Anyway, just another Hollywood squabble.

But if in real life.........

I think one should return the ring to the giver.
If the giver does not want it back, yeah...donate to a charity.