Saturday, August 9, 2008

Reasons why Women stay with their cheating Men?

I guess there are many reasons why. And only the woman who makes that decision can justify why.

This is what Hilary Clinton said when she was interviewed on Tyra Banks show on why she chose to stay with Bill Clinton after his infamous fall from grace "affair" with Monica Lewinsky.
"I really had to dig down deep and think hard about what was right for me, what was right for my family."

These are some of the reason why wives choose to stay with their husbands who cheat -

Love
Convenience
Financial reasons
Not willing to give up lifestyle
Insufficient proof of infidelity
For the sake of the children
Fear of change
Low self esteem
Bad timing
Thinking the cheater will change
To achieve career goals
Hoping counseling will help
Fear of being alone
Loyalty
Religious beliefs
Desire to keep the family intact
Belief that it won't happen again

I found this website whereby this lady who is an expert on infidelity. You can check out her website and blog.

About Ruth Houston:
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of Is He Cheating on You - 829 Telltale Signs, which lists practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs most people overlook. Frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news, Ruth has been quoted in USA Today, The New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times, Cosmopolitan, FoxNews.com, ABCNews.com, msnbc.com, MSN Lifestyle, iVillage, and numerous others. Ruth has also been a guest on The Today Show, Fox News, 1010 WINS, CNN, Fox News, ABC News, NBC News, and over 360 other radio and TV talk shows worldwide.
For more infidelity information visit Ruth's website at http://www.infidelityadvice.com/ or her infidelity blog at http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com/

1 comment:

Kamigoroshi said...

Or like what I'm in, you encourage things like this because you trust them enough never to cross the lines.

I'm in that kind of relationship. One where the lines of faithfulness and infidelity are blurred beyond normal comprehension. It just works the way it is. We in fact encourage it among each other if we can.

Sometimes, you have to both go what you're comfortable with. You can't force a free bird to commit, no more than you can force a hermit crab to go out and have fun.

So you appreciate it. Love the moments one day at a time. It always amounts to something better.